What stops a European man to continue relationships with a Ukrainian girl he has met through a wedding agency although everything was so amazing during the meetings and the next meeting should have meant the preparation for the wedding?
Here are the mistakes, which single men and men who are at the beginning of a relationship make. If something mentioned below sounds similar, let`s try to improve it.
If you think that your trip to Ukraine was a waste of time and you don`t deserve to love - you are unlikely to be in love! A lot of men, who have often been to the former USSR's countries, after having had fruitless dates and breaks-up , consider that they are destined to be alone. They say something like "Who would need me? It is obvious that I am meant to be single. I have a celibacy wreath (that is my fate, what can I do?)."
Surely, we all deserve to love and being loved! Why wouldn't it be so? But if you always complain about your horrible fate, every single word, every gesture and all your actions may become true. But if you say something like "I am so successful (kind, smart, charming and a sincere love was meant to happen in my life)!" Then true love can be yours!
Don`t forget that our life completely depends on our thoughts.
Try not to think about Ukrainian girls as scammers, whose only thing to do is to think how to get your money out of your pocket! Still the unfair reality of our life sometimes shows that there are fewer kind and honest Ukrainian women than dishonest ones. But it is possible to meet a sincere lady and not only in Ukraine or Russia.
Because of the mysterious nature of men`s character (especially of those over 50), they are interested only in the most beautiful young girls, who first of all like receiving gifts and only then answer phone calls and messages, make lame excuses and take care only of themselves.
Dear men, to avoid a bad experience, look not only for a woman with the same interests but also about the same age! If you are 60, but fall in love with 20-year-old beauty - wake up! What can you have in common? Unfortunately, many men persistently try to meet only the most Beautiful Ukrainian girls in Ukraine and later on when nothing works out properly they accuse the agency and call these girls scammers!
Remember that the agency can only warn you about the disparity of such relationships but only you can judge your particular situation for yourself. Frankly speaking, life with all-round, positive and calm woman should not be turbulent or erratic, BUT it is full of care, peace and warmth.
Jealousy is a very treacherous thing and can destroy even the strongest relationships. It is obvious that long distance relationship is not so simple and someone (especially man) will probably have some doubts and think something like "Is she really sincere with me? Maybe she has someone else?" Consider this: love is not like a leash. Even the happiest couples need some space for self-development. The more proactive their life is in terms of work, hobbies, friends, more interesting they become for their beloved ones. But the most important thing in every relationship is trust! Moreover, Ukrainian ladies have very independent nature and your lady will surely appreciate if you trust her.
One of the most common mistakes is arguing over long distance... If you always want to be right it may mean that something is wrong. This habit is like an illness. Having done something good once, the person wants to be right in everything. It is difficult but possible to get rid of this kind of a habit. To apologize does not mean to show the weakness. What can be done in such a case then? It is necessary to make concessions, sometimes even to make a sacrifice for the sake of the person you love.
Good luck in your relationships with Ukrainian ladies!
May you have a lifetime of happiness together!